Different dating services call them handles, nicknames or just usernames, but they all mean the same thing.Your username is the identity you project to the world of online dating sites and the secret to a great username is to not make a bad one!It's a much safer strategy as well as one that can be liberating and empowering.But your username is more than that it's also your avatar for your communications it's the only thing that your prospective partners will have to base your personality and looks on before they get to know you (other than any pictures and details you may wish to share) and this can really colour their judgement of you.So, for instance, if you like to ski and like to cook, your user name could be Skiing Chef.
It’s fun, and it adds a bit of much-needed intrigue to my day. Consider your intentions: What kind of people do you want to attract? “A name like Twiglet or Kit Kat sends a playful message, while Erininpajamas implies you work at home (or not at all).” That’s not to say that you have to stick to more literal names and avoid cleverness altogether—quite the contrary.Create the name 'x XBubbly Candy Xx' and you have created in their mind the image of someone relatively young with a vibrant personality and possibly a garish kitsch dress sense.Call yourself 'Stiletto Velvet' meanwhile and you now create the image of someone more lithe, more professional and possibly someone who is a little more assertive and even sexually dominant. And if some of the gentlemen above could be accused of not thinking about their username enough, then maybe some of the ladies are, well, pondering it to the point of sheer madness. After careful consideration, a close friend of mine chose Zesty Lemon as her handle, because she thought it summed up her cheerful, sassy personality. Your username and picture are the first things that people see, so think about what that name conveys to people who don’t know you. And if these two guys are to be believed, they’re serving up heartbreak and emotional baggage in spades. I don’t want to make it seem like guys are the only ones making these username mistakes; women are just as guilty. You’re trying to find someone with whom you can connect.Simply put, with your screen name you are trying to build interest.