If the ex isn't co-parenting and the kids are too young to be left alone, she will have to hire a babysitter or at least have advanced planning to go out.
Money might also be tight for her, so offer to pay the sitter and definitely spring for all the other date expenses.
The good news is that you've found a woman you think you'd like to spend the rest of your life with.
The potential downside, however, is that your new romance is a package deal that includes the offspring of her prior relationship.
They need to get comfortable with the fact that she's not going to bring someone into their lives who will do them harm or ship them off to a boarding school in Brazil.
She is a pastoral family counselor and has parented birth, step, adopted and foster children.I'm counseling a man right now who within weeks of finding out that his wife was cheating on him, separated and started dating.Within 60 days of separating, he was in a pretty serious new relationship.Most single moms remarry within five years of the divorce, according to the 2006 U. Census Bureau report "Remarriage in the United States." Before you can marry her, though, you have to win her trust and love in a dating relationship.Common challenges during the dating period including pacing the relationship, balancing her needs with those of her kids and scheduling time for dates.I have been treating her like I treat my other relationships, but I don't think she has been treated this well or nicely. I asked if she felt like she was missing out on some part of life of not being married? A typical scenario is that when people finally decide to separate, often after years of being unhappily married, they immediately start looking for more positive relationships.