Dating for a year and still no i love you

I know he wants to be with me, but I just have this horrible feeling that I can’t seem to escape.

Like, when is it my time…and what if he changes his mind next year and we aren’t together.

It makes me really sad, and makes me question what I’m doing.

Any help or words of advise are more than welcome and certainly appreciated. So I understand the fear, as I didn’t want to get married for a really long time.

I suppose I just need some advice or words of wisdom.

I’ve been dating my bf for about 8yrs now; in July, he’s aware that I’m ready for marriage, and he’s talked about it with me; very minimally though. I don’t want to bring it up for fear that I’m pushing an issue that he’s just not ready to confront. I don’t want a huge wedding, I want it to be personal; a getaway with our parents and siblings if they can make it.

I’ll have wasted all that time with someone that I thought I’d be spending the rest of my life with.

I know it’s all extremes, but I’m just at such a loss.

There are many different ways that it can happen, but when it happens, things change and a guy needs to know how to handle it or else he will make the problem worse.

They spent as much time as possible together, their sex life was amazing and John felt as though he’d finally met the woman of his dreams.

She even said to him on a few occasions that she wanted to be his wife one day, start a family and grow old together.

Time asked for the parting of our way and we had to decide. No matter how hard I tried not to think of you, I just couldn't do it because it was you that I always see each and everyday.

No matter how painful it was for us, decision must be done and so, we did and we cried and we said goodbye.


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