The persistent belief is that women are looking for long-term committed relationship and men are looking for short-term sexual relationships.That may be true for younger people, but that isn’t always the case at this age, she says. ” Here, I spared you the trouble of Googling it: The 14 Best Places to Meet Eligible Men Without giving anything away, Loriann, here are the actual places that have been recommended by a site called All Womens Talk: the bar, the market, online, church, the water cooler, newspapers, college, friends, the gym, restaurants, work, vacation, parks, airplanes. Apparently, it means standing around a lot, hoping that a cute, age appropriate, interested single guy happens upon you at the bar, the market, college, the gym, restaurants, parks, and airplanes. ” They usually come back with a “Well, I thought, as a dating coach, you’d have some ideas on meeting men. ” No, that’s what articles in Marie Claire are all about: “The Ten Top Spots to Meet Hot Guys!I could hardly introduce him to my friends, let alone marry him.Whenever one of my group met him, they'd roll their eyes and swear I'd lost my mind. A women can fall for one and become emotionally dependent before she realizes that the man is unsuitable or unavailable.My most unsuitable man was a member of a rock 'n' roll band.
That isn’t true for my three girlfriends, but it’s true for me.His life of clubs, touring, all-night recording sessions and endless partying was fun to visit, but I wouldn't want to live there.I was addicted to him sexually, which made him hard to leave -- but, of course, he was no one I could ever spend the rest of my life with. “We’re perpetually fed a line that we’re looking for love in a market that doesn’t value us,” says Marina Adshade, an economics professor in Canada and author of . However, with the gray divorce boom, there are a lot more older people available than ever before. That said, the dating market for older singles isn’t all that easy. There just aren’t that many available singles our age and the ones who are available are an interesting lot (read Anne Lamott’s funny take of her year on to understand).The more guys you meet, the more depressing it becomes as you see a pattern emerging.